By Sasha - 06 Feb 2012

Have you heard about those black freethinkers?

While I haven’t seen a lot of overt racism in my time in the atheist and skeptic communities, it’s true that when you look at us we’re a pretty melanin-light crew. Just look at pictures from any local or international conference to see what I’m talking about. Though rarely spoken out loud, my fellow white (usually dude) skeptics and atheists seems to have this idea that racial minorities just aren’t as interested in science and/or are hesitant to abandon faith for cultural reasons.

Well, the truth is there is a long history of secularism and humanism in the African-American community and it’s long past time that the rest of us took notice. There’s also a way we can help the growing numbers of atheists and free-thinkers of color. It’s call the Day of Solidarity for Black Non-Believers and I encourage you to help spread the word.

That last link was to a brand new site, African-Americans for Humanism, and it’s one I’m really excited about. I salute Debbie Goddard and thank her for her work on this project. I’m a white dude, but I know how important this is and hope to see her soon overwhelmed with work as this project takes off. I will also be looking at ways I can help the cause.

But, you ask, what can AAH do for me? Well, they have a growing directory of local groups for black non-believers, information on important black humanists in history, and my personal favorite (!!!) a speaker bureau so we can make the our conferences and panels less monochrome!

Oh yeah, and they’re starting a multimedia awareness campaign. Seriously amazing, folks.

Okay folks, if you are a free-thinker of color, I hope you already new about AAH. If not, I’m glad I could do a small part to further their mission. If you’re not African-American, please help spread the word about AAH and the Day of Solidarity for Black Non-Believers

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By Sasha - 03 Feb 2012

Nomads of the Friendzone

The Friendzone (actual photo)

A lot of guys, and all Nice Guys™, like to talk about the Friendzone, which is a desolate wasteland of no-sex that men are cast into by callous women who don’t want to fuck them. It works like this: Dude likes a lady. I mean he REALLY likes her. She likes him, but she doesn’t LIKE like him. He is banished to the Friendzone and his penis is dry forever after. What’s worse, she keeps being friends with the guy who she has betrayed (by not sucking his dick) and has the audacity to date and copulate with OTHER DUDES who are obviously inferior to our hero.

Okay, now you know how horrible the Friendzone is and how messed up it is that any woman would EVER do that to a Nice Guy™. I’m done here, right?


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By Sasha - 02 Feb 2012

Understanding the diversity of Privilege

One very common argument I receive from men when I write about sexism, and especially when I talk about privilege, is the fact that they/many men aren’t privileged in some senses of the word. I received a comment through the site that was far more polite than they usually are and asked the questioner if I could post it in its entirety and respond here so that everyone can understand what I mean when I talk about “male privilege”. He was kind enough to agree, only asking that I remove his name. (more…)

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By Sasha - 01 Feb 2012

Making events more accessible to skeptics and atheists with disabilities

There are many skeptics and atheists who are also people with disabilities. You may not see them at events often, but there are reasons for that. First, many disabilities are invisible. Someone may appear just fine but have limited stamina, mobility, hearing or even vision. Secondly, despite the many improvements to public life made since passing the American’s With Disabilities act in 1990, not all public events and spaces are as welcoming as they could be when you are a person with a disability.

As we all know, the condition of one’s body has little bearing on their mind and what they can contribute to our communities. As someone who helps organize a skeptical conference in Northern California I found myself thinking how event organizers can take some extra steps to ensure that we don’t miss out on hearing any worthy voices in our cause. I asked for some input from skeptics and atheists with disabilities and have a few ideas myself. So, what can we do to make our events accessible to everyone? (more…)

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By Matt - 31 Jan 2012

Note to My Fellow Men at Conferences: Women Don’t Dig Douchebags

[NOTE: This was originally published in July 2011.]

In recent weeks and days, there seems to be another controversy raging within the skeptical blogosphere – this one concerning social interactions between men and women at conferences (and, I assume, in general).  In short, some guys are acting like douchebags and they’re not getting the message.  Since I just returned from Skepchicon/Convergence 2011 in Minneapolis where I spent a lot of time with the ladies of Skepchick, I wanted to put in my $0.02 worth on this whole fracas.

First, some background… It seems the whole thing got started when Rebecca Watson of Skepchick wrote about an encounter she had with a man in an elevator in Dublin.  Long story short: the guy propositioned her, and she said no; she also felt somewhat cornered seeing as how she was stuck, alone, in a metal cage with the guy.  Apparently, there were a number of people who thought she handled the situation poorly (especially by blogging about it and noting the inappropriate behavior on the part of the man in question).


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By Kaoru Negisa - 30 Jan 2012

It’s Not Going to Work: How to Argue with Privilege

By now, everybody in the atheosphere is familiar with the Jessica Ahlquist story, and especially the latest development in the saga. The sheer amount of bigotry, hatred, and blind, unthinking idiocy on display by citizens of Cranston is astonishing, made no less so by their calls for religious tolerance.

…wait for it….

“Religious tolerance?!” (more…)

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By Sasha - 27 Jan 2012

AtheistAthlete on Sexist Skeptics

We here at More Than Men love this guy, and hope he will soon contribute to the site directly.

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By Sasha - 26 Jan 2012

Sasha’s Brief Guide to Not Being a Creepy Misogynist

[A slightly different version of this piece was posted on Sasha’s personal site. It is being reposted for this new audience.]

A problem that’s come up again and again in the skeptic and atheist communities is that of women being creeped out and their contributions being minimized because of guys objectifying them. You run in to a lot of men who have their feelings hurt and the arguments always seem to boil down to dudes so high on Axe body spray fumes that they can’t comprehend the words of anyone with a vagina. I’m a penis-owning, cisgendered, biologically male straight person. One of the tools at our disposal here at More Than Men is the fact that our social privilege gives us a louder voice than we probably deserve. Maybe we can use that power for good and I can explain a few things.


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By Sasha - 25 Jan 2012

Stephen Robinson: Small Government…

[This article was originally posted on the author’s blog.]

Texas demonstrates the conservative goal of shrinking government to the point it’s small enough to enter a woman’s womb.

“A three-judge federal appeals panel ruled Friday that the state of Texas can move ahead with enforcement of a law requiring doctors to provide a sonogram to pregnant women before they get an abortion.”

“As written, the law would require women seeking an abortion in Texas to view a picture of the embryo or fetus and hear a description of its development before having the procedure.”

This is horrific. The most benign interpretation of the law is that it infantilizes women, who it deems too stupid to realize what a fetus has the potential to become. “Oh, wait, it’s like a future version of me conceived through the fertilization of an egg by sperm — to be exact, a developing mammal after the embryonic stage but before birth? See, I thought it was one of those chestburster things from Alien. My friend Mabel has seen all the movies. She’s real excited about the prequel that’s coming out. Anyway, she told me that I’d want to get that taken care of but now that I see this picture and everything. Well, thanks for straightening me out. Do you validate parking, by the way?”

However, the comments from judges who have ruled on the case only reinforce that the law is intended as federally mandated coercion intended to prevent women from having an abortion.

A U.S. Supreme Court ruling in a Pennsylvania case “held that the fact that such truthful, accurate information may cause a woman to choose not to abort her pregnancy only reinforces its relevance to an informed decision,” U.S. Circuit Judge Patrick Higginbotham wrote in a concurring opinion. “Insisting that a doctor give this information in his traditional role of securing informed consent is permissible.”

I admit I’m impressed that a man with the name “Higginbotham” was able to overcome childhood bullying and ostracization and rise to the rank of U.S. Circuit judge, but I disagree wholly with his thinking here. “Informed consent” should relate to the woman’s health and include relevant information about any short or long-term effects (e.g. if the procedure could possibly result in sterilization and so on).

Pro-life advocates often claim that since a doctor will advise you of other alternatives to surgery, it’s appropriate for them to do the same regarding abortion. However, adoption is not a medical procedure, and once a woman is pregnant, that’s the only other option aside from keeping the child herself. Once she’s actually gone to the doctor, it should be accepted that she’s made the very difficult decision to terminate the pregnancy. If she wanted help with such a personal decision, she would reach out to friends and family. Her doctor isn’t her rabbi. He’s a physician.

Higginbotham demonstrates a lack of basic compassion that justifies his being born with the name “Higginbotham.” Yes, forcing a pregnant woman to “view a picture of the embryo or fetus and hear a description of its development before having the procedure” is not merely annoying and might cause her to be late for her hair appointment. It is actually incredibly painful and difficult for her. That fact does not justify doing it. Quite the opposite. And even if it’s occasionally effective and some women choose not to go through with the abortion, the law makes no provision for the associated costs of carrying the pregnancy to term or caring for the child once its born. You see, the people close to a woman who provide counsel and input would also be there to help her once she decides to go through with the pregnancy. This a serious decision that the government is sticking its nose into with the apparently clueless belief that it’s all just a minor inconvenience for a pregnant woman:

“Oh, la di dah, I guess I won’t buy that Coach bag and instead devote the next nine months to successfully bringing this pregnancy to term. No biggie. If I’m not able to raise the child myself, I will give it up for adoption at one of those Imaginary Republican Orphanages (as seen on TV) that will find a home for the child regardless of its health or race. Of course, that won’t be traumatic for me at all because I am just a child-growing machine and wouldn’t possibly become connected to my unborn child over the next nine months. And, really, can I please get an answer about the parking validation?”

If the government believes this type of psychological torture is appropriate in order to prevent people from doing things that are otherwise legal, I would propose a similar law requiring potential gun owners to watch news reports of children who died because of guns in the home.

Texas governor Rick Perry praised the new law, saying, “We will continue to fight any attempt to limit our state’s laws that value and protect the unborn.”

Too bad the effort to “value and protect” them ends once they’re born — especially if they’re women.

– Stephen Robinson

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By Sasha - 24 Jan 2012

On Speakers and “Tokens”

Diversity makes many things easier.

One of the most often cited ways to encourage diversity within our communities is to promote diversity amongst the speakers we feature at our events. There has been a lot of high-profile success in this – TAM has been approaching 50/50 gender representation, for instance – but there still seem to be a lot of mostly-white, mostly-male speaker rosters and panels. One way that has been proposed for speakers to take action is for white men to decline an invitation to speak at an event or on a panel that lacks diversity. Those of us who organize conferences and events have even more power to make a change because we’re the one making invitations in the first place.

I can sense the comments coming in already.”But Sasha,” you ask, “isn’t that just establishing quotas? Aren’t we ignoring qualified dudes because we’re stocking our conferences with woman and minority speakers?” My answer is “No, don’t be so ridiculous and offensive by assuming that trying to create a diverse group of speakers means choosing less-qualified speakers in order to have more than white men talking.


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